How Humans will eventually learn to relate, Energy projection to other beings, how to avoid addictions to other beings.
Using energy in a new way when relating to people, Beginning with how you address children. We should view them as end points in evolution to receive our energy on a constant basis unconditionally. The worse thing a parent can do is drain a childs energy while correcting them. This leads to control dramas, which can be avoided before development if parents give them all the energy they need no matter the situation. They should always be included in conversation, especially ones about them. Speaking about a child as if they were there may lead them to silence their inner voice, at a time in their development when they require self-expression. Also, parents should never take responsibility for more children than they can give attention to. Realistically, one adult can only give attention to one child at a time, without being overwhelmed. If the number of children out numbers the adults, the children begin to unconsciously compete for their parents affection, sibling rivalry. When children ask questions its key to always tell them the truth in a language they can understand, avoiding the temptation of giving them a deceitful answer for entertainment. Cultural expressions like “Storks bring babies, Santa Clause” aren’t bad, children normally being to observe the flaw in these simplest of white lies. Never believe the truth is too complicated for their comprehension. Children have vast imagination its not always clear to them when adults are playing with them if you package the lie well enough. Culturally we’ve been conditioned to compete for each others energy, in a violent tussle over a persons ego.
In Relationships,
When love 1st happens it sometimes appears as lust [highly sexual energy], two individuals are giving each other energy unconsciously allowing both to feel buoyant & elated the “in love” puppy love aura type many have experienced early on in life. Unfortunately sometimes not most people experience this they cut themselves off from the Mystical Consciousness energy abundantly available if your aware of its existence. They begin to rely on their partner to supply the sex energy they should be receiving from the vastness of cosmic energy that they are now disconnected from. So now as a result of lack of energy they stop giving each other energy and fall into their control dramas, in an attempt to control the others energy, similar to sibling rivalry, spouse control turns relationships into power struggles. This addiction i would say is on par with heroin and cell phone addiction is unconsciously happening all around us. We become addicted because one or both parties have yet to access the opposite sex energy in themselves. Some women aren’t able to integrate their Yang channel, ascending masculine energy. Some men aren’t able to integrate their Yin channel, descending feminine energy. Leaving them blocked off from the “Wu Chi”. We are susceptible to addictions it is dangerous to be disconnected from the energy of the universe. This relationship of two '“half” circles or “Letter C” creates the “whole” feeling that comes from a combination of both of their energies. This “completed” person of one supplying ascending & one supplying descending energy comes with two egos. This illusion of completeness always breaks down into a power struggle.
Integration,
for women begin with her father, a lack of father, or figure could lead to a control drama. For women that have their father in their lives it varies based off their relationship. In the ideal one early on she may be attracted to her father. She wants him around her all the time, seeking his ascending energy granting her completion. These women grow to place value upon themselves because this normally leads them to be independent relying on herself to survive. I identify these women as Omegas. Sometimes the daughter mistakes this by thinking the only way receive this energy is by sexually possessing her father & keeping him close physically. Due to the fact she believes his sex energy should be in her command at all times, because of the magically perfect view of him. Dramas are formed if she learns how to posture herself in order to manipulate him for a supply of Yang energy. Ideally, the father remain uncompetitive. This allows him to monitor is energy, while subconsciously supplying his daughter. A father should be open & communicative. She she’s him as a magical figure, if her father communicates honestly what he’s doing and why, she will then begin to integrate his particular style & abilities [tactics] as her own to become whole and tape into the energy of the universe.
Syphons,
occur when parents compete for their children’s energy, causing “opposite sex issues” leading to a drama in the children later on in life that they must repair manually. Opposite sex issues is were adults consciously or unconsciously seek opposite sex energy to replenish their depleted reserve of opposite sex energy, we should be receiving from the abundance of energy from the universe. We disconnect with the abundance of the universe by engaging in energy competition. Leads to the rise of co-dependent relationships with built in deflects due to dramas.
Access to Abundance [Energy Distribution]
Once you stabilize your own channel within the universe you will have access to the vastness of energy it provides. In combination with previous insights outlined in “The Celestine Prophecy by. James Redfield” we can use simple conversation with peers and loved ones to practice energy distribution and energy reserves. To practice in conversation give the speaker full attention & appreciation by giving someone more energy that they’d otherwise have they get clarity of mind. This clarity of mind may come with a lightness per say in order to get revelation about what they’re thinking about and how it should be communication. Think like a Einstein light bulb or Jimmie Newton brain blast for all my 90s Babies. Sometimes to speaker monopolizes this energy. Practice passing the baton when speaking in order to avoid fragmenting a conversation, passing the baton enhances listening skills & observation, a different form of meditation. This energy distribution technique is known as projecting.